HEY PEOPLE 😃😄
WELCOME BACK TO MY NEXT BLOG
I am really excited to share my thoughts on
this topic.
This is about confidence, I know there are a lot of blogs on the internet on
confidence, but here I don't share any bookish knowledge. I share only my
practical knowledge that I get from my own experiences.
You know recently I asked a person really
close to me ''How would I get back my confidence which I believed is long
gone?". She just stood there and simply told me after being silent for
like 5 minutes ''Kid, it's all in your head''. I asked her what does this
statement exactly means. She told me that your confidence never goes anywhere.
It is always within you. It goes when you lower down your worth and start
doubting yourself. I was still not convinced. Of course, I wanted to understand
the depth of what she was saying. I understand there is a lot of confidence
required in life, say on stage, leadership, to overcome fears, etc.
If
you want something really big in life you need confidence. Confidence is
required in every area of life.
This blog is all about how
to be overall confident in Life
So she added ''here is a habit, you could
do so maintain as well as boost up your confidence''
Don't you want to know a habit that requires 5 minutes of your day, that will
increase your confidence, decreases self-doubt and ultimately increases your
self-esteem?
The answer is really simple. There is a technique
called Visualization which World Class Athletes also have this as a part of their training. Here is what I was advised to do and it really worked.
Believe it or not, we all have an imagined
perfect self in our minds, but we do not think of it a lot. So I want you to
imagine that perfect self you want to be in the future. Think it deeply, what is
the best version to want to become?. For example, my imagined perfect self is I
am a leader who helps people and has beautiful connections with people. I am
doing what I love and I learn from my every experience whether good or bad etc. While doing this, some part of your imagination may not be your reality, but there is a
popular quote which always inspires me. I quote ''Fake it. Till you make
it".
2. REVIVING POSITIVE MEMORIES
School memories(Farewell) |
We all have certain positive memories in
life such as when we achieved something, moments when our parents were proud of us(sometimes). Basically, the moment when you had the best experience of your
life. I need you to feel that happiness again. So for example, my best
positive memory was when I gave a presentation assertively and since then my
stage fear got away. I want you to think of the best moments of your life.
Childhood memories |
3. POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS
Positive
affirmations are phrases or mantra you say to yourself which may be true or may
be not. Ultimately it becomes your
reality. So you need to say positive
affirmations to yourselves such as ''You are a leader'', ''You have great public speaking skills'', You do not over
think" etc. To further add you need to say positive statements to you on the basis of your strengths, that will
motivate you to have such confidence and do something amazing. Be the best
version of yourself in life and do something you love and be unstoppable. Do it In such a way you ultimately do not hate Mondays
anymore.
CONCLUSION:
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All the confidence you need in life is all inside you.
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Confidence is more of a mind game.
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Your strengths are unbelievable.
- DIVYANSH TUTEJA
Try it and let me know how it works out for you in the comments below.
#confidence
#leadership #success
Nice bro
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DeleteAmazing!!
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DeleteThank you for telling the actual meaning of CONFIDENCE
ReplyDeleteThanks man . Means a lot
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ReplyDeleteAstute view👏👍
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DeleteNice thoughts and easy to perceive.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the best
Thank you so much. Will make much better content in next blog
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