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DEPRESSION

Hello people :) Really glad you came to give it a read.  I am really excited to share my thoughts on this topic Why we become depressed? The truth may sound harsh but it is what it is. Here it comes, we all are so stuck in our comfort zones that as soon as we face some failures in life we start to doubt ourselves. This lowers our self-esteem, our state of mind becomes chaotic. This leads us to fall into depression. Just believe in yourself no matter what happens in life. You are the best. Here are 2 core factors to avoid Depression : 1. Pushing yourself If we make a habit of pushing our limit always. We are never in our comfort zone then. Life becomes exciting. You become unstoppable. You achieve more than you ever imagined.  2. High self-esteem  Great self-esteem means knowing your true worth, not doubting yourself always, even at the time of failure. My friends, having a high self-esteem is as important in life as to stay hydrated always. I

IMPRISONING OUR EMOTIONS

Hello everyone ❤ This blog will be kind of different Hope you will enjoy it , The hard truth is sometimes we imprison our emotions because of the fear of being judged. It used to be hard for me to express myself vividly at an emotional level. Right from the start, I was always a nice guy, always felt that people never understood me.  The question is how are people supposed to understand if you never express yourself?. Sounds obvious. Right?.   In fact, people barely understand themselves at times.  LIBERATION FROM JUDGEMENT People will judge you irrespective of what you do. This should not stop you from saying what you feel. Really, express yourselves like a human, not a coward. It's quite obvious that you do not have to be too loud about your emotions at times. Sometimes you have to understand the situation too.  To conclude : We should be emotionally sorted from inside. (easier said than done, though) Do not expect people to understand you. T

Real Relationships

Merry Christmas people 😉😄 Life is worth living. We know that right?. I am very happy to share my experience of having transformed myself from a self obsessed teen to an empathetic man.  Well, we all have flaws, sometimes we already know them, sometimes we can barely recognize them.   So be proud that you have flaws. Flaws are what inspire us to be better every time. This statement has a deep meaning. We are not born self-obsessed, it is just that when we focus too much on something, we become obsessed with it. Unknowingly, it sabotages the connections we had with people  Here are four simple practises to build beautiful relationships 1. PRACTICE HAVING PRIORITIES In life , maintaining beautiful relationships is a priority.   It is important that you are focused and have a goal in life but that does not mean that you would not speak to anyone else. We get much exposure when we talk to people. So listen to people, understand them and try to f

GAME CHANGER: CONFIDENCE

HEY PEOPLE 😃😄 WELCOME BACK TO MY NEXT BLOG I am really excited to share my thoughts on this topic. This is about confidence, I know there are a lot of blogs on the internet on confidence, but here I don't share any bookish knowledge. I share only my practical knowledge that I get from my own experiences.  You know recently I asked a person really close to me ''How would I get back my confidence which I believed is long gone?". She just stood there and simply told me after being silent for like 5 minutes ''Kid, it's all in your head''. I asked her what does this statement exactly means. She told me that your confidence never goes anywhere. It is always within you. It goes when you lower down your worth and start doubting yourself. I was still not convinced. Of course, I wanted to understand the depth of what she was saying. I understand there is a lot of confidence required in life, say on stage, leadership, to overcome fears, etc.

YOU ARE PROMINENT

"YOU HAVE YOUR OWN REASONS TO BE AMAZING"      - DIVYANSH TUTEJA   Welcome back people 😉 Thank you for checking in on this blog!   Ever wondered how important you really are in this world to the people who really care about you ?. I have been there when you constantly doubt yourself whether you are really worth it or not   . Believe me, when you have this feeling, you could never go on a different path and you will be a follower, not a leader which you are supposed to be in this world.  Recently I was able to free myself from the mindset of a follower.  Yes, it did hurt some people in the short run, who were really close to me but at the end of the day, it's you, who is responsible for your life to be the best. Believe me, in the long run, it's going to be all good .   "Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become" - Steve Jobs Here is what I did to know my w

BEING ALONE

                                      Hey people!   Welcome  to my  First    Blog Okay so once in our lifetime we all have a phase when we feel that we have no friends and we are all alone to ourselves   ."Nobody cares for me how am I going to live this life being unloved?"   .Trust me I understand. Recently I had such emotions and it felt like if I had not done anything I would have gone to depression. So this is my experience, I finally resolved this and I don't want you guys to feel that you are alone. Trust me I am here for you people !. .So what did I do?                                                                  I DID THESE 4 THINGS :       1 .   Opening up   I know what will you say "We are brave enough to handle our emotions". The fact is sometimes we cannot even understand how are we feeling? we mostly don't get an answer . Ask yourself sometimes ''Why are you feeling sad?". Most of us would have