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The Magic Of Creating Strong Values In Life


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Hello people 💜

You know on what basis we make decisions? 
People may say emotions, feelings, etc but actually on what basis.
That is their values such as honesty, hard work, responsibility, dedication, respecting people's opinions, etc that determine their actions and choices. 

 Well, the reality is if we have strong values and principles in life, we can stand up for ourselves against wrong influences. 
 Values are basically promises we make to ourselves that we are going to follow them come what may. 

 PATTERNS:

Suppose I fought with my best friend because of some misunderstandings, then instead of putting ego in between, the right thing is to talk to him and apologize if necessary. 
Why?
This is because, I value friendship, not my ego.  
When we value our health so much in life and anyone tries to influence us for drugs, alcohol. Most likely we would not be convinced as it is against our values. This is the power of having strong values in life. 

What values do I have?
To trust me and follow my instincts.
To be the hardest worker in the room(inspired by Dwane Johnson)
To take charge of my life. 
To have the right attitude, not ego inside me.
Everyone has a different kind and degree of values. Some people value hardwork more, some people value respect more. 

 Alright, so I was a kid who got influenced so easily, like every time. I had no stand regarding myself as I had considerably fewer values in life. Then I wrote my values and gradually I got crystal clear in my choices.
The stronger our values are, the more peaceful and confident we become. 

BENEFITS:

  1. We become clear in your mindset and actions.
  2. This boosts our self-esteem.
  3. We become more peaceful.
  4. We take the most desirable decisions.

Progress Plan:
Well, start by making some promises to yourselves:
Write down what are your values in life and see the clarity in your mindset.
Start by giving time to parents.
Start by writing a sleep journal this night. 
Start by stop trying to be perfect every time. 

 Well, everybody has different values that lead to their individuality. 
Just start! 
THE BEST IS YET TO COME 😉

 Love,
Divyansh Tuteja

 OUTCOME:
Our values are what defines our actions and choices. It is therefore important in life to have strong values in life to make the most suited decision.  
So, what are your values?
Comment down! 
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